VIRTUALY IN LOVE
In the past, lovers used to send each other love letters that, despite
obstacles and distance, kept their relationship vivant. This way, the
long waiting period till they could see each other again seemed bearable.
Today, the internet became a new messenger for the lonely ones,
the
ones searching for a relationship or persons that want to communicate
with off-shares friends or lovers and family.
Aside words, in a face to face encounter partners exchange gestures,
looks,
caresses, inviting each other to go on. The look in her eyes can
encourage
you; his smile can show you how happy he is to be in your company.
Distance relationships don’t
give you the
advantage of seeing the gestures and reactions
of the other
person. You are never quite certain
that your message will be appreciated.
There
are many factors that influent the chances to receive an
answer that can
live up to expectations. Despite this reality, you must
use wisely the
minimum of control you hold.
When sending that email, you must create an adequate atmosphere
by
choosing an appealing subject for your email. Write something
like “For
your eyes only” or “To read when you need me”.
You must always state clearly your desires and be much more forward
online
than in real life. If you are not, the other person might
think you have forgotten everything you had.
Creating a romantic atmosphere
over the
internet can be tricky, but if you both want it,
it can be done.
All you have to do is help each
other. If you are trying to understand the
other person’s reaction, just test them. Send emails
that use a personal
tone, full of big words and somehow try to set them in an imaginary
romantic
and ideal world. Some world you
can now refer to as your world, a world
that
might appeal to your interlocutor.
If you have an email describing events from your friends life,
pay attention
to them. Try to show you really read the email by
referring to each and
every moment described in a different
sentence. Have opinions
and give advice.
When romantically corresponding, you must rise above your
real experiences.
If In real life you are shy, here you are not
allowed to. Just relax and
create a romantic atmosphere in your
room and the right words will appear
themselves.
